Being in a relationship can either be really fun or extremely stressful. It’s important to be able to tell the difference between healthy actions and unhealthy actions. You and your partner should be on a level where you are comfortable with each other emotionally and physically.
You and your partner connect on a physical level, but not on an emotional level. Sometimes, you need space to be by yourself, so you decide to tell your partner.
Healthy: “I understand. Just know that if you need me, I’m here for you.”
Unhealthy: “But you’re supposed to tell me everything.” or “I thought you loved me. Why would you want to be alone?”
You just spent an entire weekend hanging out with your partner. While it was fun, you also miss your friends and you want to let your partner know that next weekend, you’ll be hanging out with your friends.
Healthy: They understand completely and realize that you are a person free to do whatever the hell you want.
Unhealthy: They get mad at you for wanting to spend time with other people.
When I’m upset all I want is space to calm down THEN talk about it…. I hate when people sit there and continue to push my buttons because then i explode.
Honestly it’s not like anyone reads my text posts…. like this if you read it!
the spell can only be broken by true love’s high-five